Rule "7 guru"
Author: Yuri Smirnov . Category: generation of improvements . Posted: 08.12.2009, 23:45.
Rule of Seven guru ": to change their lives for the better, modern man enough to learn (theoretically and / or in practice) not more than seven systems of personal development. The rule is valid provided that the person is fully aware of what benefits extracted from the current system and then searches the next.
The rule is restrictive and is intended to compensate the habit of many of us indefinitely postpone urgent changes in their lives.
Humorous interpretation of the rules: if the seven gurus will set firmly in hand, offering you a way out of the vicious circle - then you are important enough people to take eighth place in the chain.
The rule in both interpretations imply that:
1. If a person is constantly in touch with reality (living in the here and now ") - it changes with reality itself.
2. Most of us have lost touch with reality and to restore it needs to be "soft" assistance from (in clever books, training to build capacity in support of the virtual and real creative communities, etc.).
3. Many systems of personal development partially overlap. To develop and implement their own unique life plan, just getting acquainted with a limited number of systems.
4. Comparing the differences of systems of personal growth teaches self fill voids in the Plan.
5. Ask: "Who will teach me to realize my dream home?" Rely on Google's or a hint of old school friend: bug of choice at this stage is not too terrible.
6. The first experience, even negative, will help you better understand yourself better and to formulate his next question, "spiritual search".
7. In each new development system looking for the missing links of his plan. Leaving the system, rewrite the plan again.
8. Be aware: "What I gained from this system? What I still was not enough to change your life? In what other book, the training I am ready to spend your precious time? "
9. If after meeting with the seven systems, you still do not hesitate to act - then you were not honest with yourself in paragraphs 7 and 8. Try to get rid of their fears, not going beyond the seven already investigated your systems.
10. If you overcome your fears will not - then you need a "hard" support: "help a friend" in the face of a psychologist or "help room" in the face of psychological support.
PS Is it possible to read smart books after earning your plan? Of course! Good books - encouraging, and for the inspiration to successful change is not less than instructions. In addition, good books always contained a lot of little useful techniques that will help better implement your plan, without changing it.
PPS I want you to find "his" guru! And do not forget about the "safety" . 
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What is the plan in your understanding?
Like this:
1. Confident enough assumption: that is my essence, that I know best, "what was born.
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) And detailed sequence of the next phase.
2. A clear view: I want to achieve in life at this stage - not yet become a "different person" (all of us for life several times become "others").
3. Confidence that the purpose of paragraph 2 is not contrary to my nature and at least partly to reflect.
4. Introduction of how and with what patterns, barriers, fears, I must look towards the goal.
5. Presentation, as I have time, what means I will have this goal, with the help of some people and organizations (if possible, funds should be mastered through experience, but people - even relatives - alerted
6. The overall sequence of steps (a plan with a small letter
7. Introduction of how to mobilize internal and external resources, if the plan goes wrong, I'm ready to adjust, and without which - and the plan did not plan.
Treatise writing, of course, need not
: The entire plan can be put on a piece of paper in the form of the scheme, details of which can be left in the head. Indeed, the scheme does not care if a person wakes up and lived with his plan - and feels that the time he has.
THANK YOU, Yuri.
And thank you
I think that the desire to learn lish seven systems ogranichivaekt personality in terms of further growth, although for the majority and more than enough
About the "further growth" will write later - but agree in advance that his limit worthless: growth is endless. Regarding this post, then to "change for the better" for many will be enough, and familiarity with systems 3-4, and 7 systems - as you can tell from the context, this is the limit for a "very lazy.
I read the title of the topic does not rule 7 of the guru, and rule 7 of the hands))) but on this one and the same.
You're right: almost the same
I consciously made in the title roll with the famous "Rule of six handshakes: we need people and ideas - always somewhere near 